Apart from working out and reading, a lot of the other stuff I like to do has been left undone. Emails and letters to friends and writing my blog. Both of these activities take some thought, reflection and concentration. I have simply not had it - flitting around from unfinished job to another. Completely lacking focus.
I have been idly wondering why I haven't blogged - but only in the sort of ADHD way that I'm thinking at the moment - 2 minutes while driving somewhere or 10 seconds before falling asleep. Had I run out of stuff to say? Unlikely. I thought maybe I'd run out of inspiration, but judging by the amount of notes I've made and unfinished blog posts in my feed, I wouldn't say that is the case either. Today everything finally caught up with me. The kids are home from school and it struck me that my messy, all over the shop attitude is really messing up my time with my kids. When I'm with them I'm thinking of other jobs that need doing (and often trying to do them on my iPhone) and then when I'm not with them I'm feeling guilty that I'm not enjoying them (and they're growing up too fast and I'll soon be 55 and alone and needy and miserable and yadda yadda yadda). My usual response to these moments has been to just instinctively feel guilty and spiral into a loop of self-hatred (cue: "Petra, You are a headcase"). But today I was so tired - and tired of myself - that I decided a better response was called for - a solution of sorts. Focus. Finishing one thing before starting another. Being in one place mentally at a time. Mornings for training people, training myself and doing my admin. Including blogs, reading and writing. Afternoons for the kids. First day of it today and although I'm finishing this post off at night, it's worked for the kids and myself.
So I'm back folks. One flawed attempt at a time.
Which leads me to a mini catchup. I'm going to catch up on you - and here's your catchup on me.
- First Olympic distance tri complete. Summary? Incredibly )(*(&^*^%&^% hard. Much harder than I thought it would be.
- Hard logistically. After all the planning, and all the packing lists, I found myself listening to last minute instructions in the morning and suddenly realising my race chip was in my transition box, in transition. Which was meant to be closed at that point. It wasn't, thankfully, and so I just had to fight my way against the tide of those leaving transition to retrieve my chip and put it on.
- Exhausting. I had kind of equated doing an Olympic distance tri with running a half marathon (not at PB pace). It was not. It was much much harder. I was exhausted by the time I came off the bike and still had to run a 10K.
- That's it really. Tiring. Exhausting. Hard. Fun? I think so...
- Going well until about 4 weeks ago when I got a slight rotator cuff strain showing (off) pushups to a client and then carried on swimming on it. I have been out of the pool for 3 weeks and am not sure when I'll be back. The shoulder is, sadly, not right yet. The rest is going fine. I've been riding and running and riding and running. Despite the fact that I probably should be focusing my attention on building an ark.
- Thank god for my coach. I have clearly not shown massive competence in paddling my own canoe at the moment and thank god I have her. She tells me what to do, lets me off the hook when I won't and kicks me up the butt when I need it. She's terrifyingly good herself but nonetheless does not give up on me.
|Me - after a 3h15m ride and a 30m run. Wet to the bone.|